Rules & Expectations

1. Be polite to the Dom.  I am not a corporation, and I do not depend on your subscription.  This means that if you are rude, or cause a problem, I can tell you straight-up why you're wrong and what the consequences will be.  It's not necessary to call me 'master' or anything like that, but I do expect that you'll interact with me as a human being who deserves respect.  Failure to meet standards of courtesy may result in services being discontinued.
2. Be truthful.  If you struggle with something social and you're concerned I'll take it wrong, please tell me!  If you need an accommodation due to a physical or mental disability, let me know!  If something scares you, approaches your hard limits, or even just makes you uncomfortable, please talk to me about it.  Give me the tools I need to take proper care of you, so we can maintain a positive working relationship.  All information is 100% confidential and will not be shared with ANY party under any circumstances.  Seriously, if the FBI comes knocking on my door asking about your kinks, they better have a subpoena.  I take your trust seriously, and will not abuse it.
3. Keep RP where it belongs.  There is a reason I operate anonymously; this relationship has limits.  As such, don't try to hunt down my personal information or take the relationship into real life.  I am a player working with you, another player, to concoct a story.  Your character is welcome to fall head over heels in love with mine, but those feelings cannot spill over into real life.  If my privacy is violated, I will discontinue services and end all communications.  Seriously, I'm not available.  Not even a little bit.  Don't ask.
4.  Observe reasonable standards of grammar and spelling.  I know these are things people sometimes struggle with, and I am not asking for perfection.  I'm not perfect either!  Both Discord and Google Docs have spellcheck functions.  Please make use of them, and if you make a mistake, edit your existing post rather than making a series of correction posts.  V prefers past-tense, 3rd person, paragraph format RP, but I am open to present tense and script format.  Once a format is decided upon, please stick to it.  If you're confused about what the different formats mean, check the FAQs or ask me during consult!  I'm happy to explain the nuts and bolts.
5.  Be on time for your consultation or scene.  If you have a scheduling conflict, please let me know at least 24 hours in advance.  I will do the same.  Even if something unexpected happens, and you can only tell me 5 minutes before, it is 100% better and less frustrating to let me know as soon as you can than to keep me waiting.  Life happens, and I will not be upset unless you make a habit of it.
6. Pay before you play.  All services are dependent on payment.  It's okay to chat with me in DMs or messages if you have questions specifically relating to my services, or need to reschedule, but we will not discuss your scenes or do any role-playing unless you've paid for the time.  It should go without saying at this point that we will also not chat about our personal lives, our pets, our coworkers, or our weekly D&D games.
7. Don't be a bigot.  I will discontinue services and communications if you come at me with racism, homophobia, ableism, misogyny, or any other sort of prejudice that involves active disenfranchisement of other people.  Unintentional slip-ups happen, since nobody is 100% unproblematic - those aren't what I'm talking about.  If you are comfortable expressing your opinion that the world would be better off without xXx group of marginalized people, don't even talk to me.  Pass on my services and find someone else to get your jollies with.  Please refer to rule 1, and remember I am not a business, and I don't have to care what you think of me.  There will be no 'customer service filter' on my opinions.
8. Keep it Safe, Sane, and Consensual.  I have feelings and limits too. Staying in control is one of my talents, but it is still possible to hurt me by disregarding my limits.  Throwing curve-balls in the middle of a scene isn't good for anybody.  Please use the consultation process to make sure the things you want to do are okay with me, and I will do the same with you.  A satisfying, fulfilling scene is much better than any sudden plot twist.  I am not an audience - it isn't your job to keep me on the edge of my seat.  Remember, we are working together to create something that is satisfying to YOU.